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How to make a man jealous: 10 Effective techniques

Posted by John Anumba

“How can I make my man jealous? This is a question that preoccupies many women. Making a man jealous isn’t that hard… but it can backfire if you don’t know how to do it right.

In fact, it could cause such damage that your urge to make him jealous may end your relationship or prevent you from winning his heart if he finds out that you are intentionally trying to play with his emotions.

I’m not saying that’s what you really want to do, but that’s how he will perceive it if you go about it wrong. 

This is why it is important that you be careful and subtle in your desire to make him jealous.

Also be careful not to create too much insecurity in him, because he could become extremely possessive, call you too often and even demand to know who you are talking to and who the men are in your life.

They might even start to require your passwords for your social accounts and networks and feel authorized to behave that way. So, don’t say I didn’t warn you that creating jealousy can be a lot like playing with fire.

But let’s get to the point, I know how to make a man jealous. And yes, it is not that complicated. 

And yes, I will explain to you exactly how to do it, don’t worry. However, this is not how I would choose to get a man’s attention and love.

There are much better ways to crack down on a guy you like, or rekindle the flames with your guy. 

That being said, and because it’s a question a lot of women ask me: here’s how to make a man jealous.

How to make a man jealous: 10 Effective techniques

Go out with your friends

Men often feel uncomfortable when girls go out without them. They have this constant feeling that another guy is going to approach and that she will be drunk enough to cheat on him. 

So if you want to make your man jealous, put on the sexiest dress you have, put on some makeup and spend a few more minutes on your hairstyle.

When he sees that you are dressed to please, he will lose his mind and he will not be able to bear that other men than him are lucky enough to see you like this. 

This will turn him into a monster of jealousy and he won’t be able to sleep until you get home. See how a little effort can go a long way?

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Ignore his messages and calls

When he text you, don’t reply immediately. The same goes for phone calls. Show him that you are not available to him, and that you will not make yourself available just because he wants to. 

Also prove to him that you have your own life and that you enjoy spending time with your loved ones, colleagues, family, etc.

Plus, if you really want to make him jealous and titillate, keep posting on social media. This will make him think twice about his behavior and how he can be aloof with you. 

After a few days at this pace, your mission will be accomplished!

Accidentally touch another man

If you’ve dated your male friends and your man, try to make him jealous by touching another man and regularly laughing at his jokes. Your man will feel possessive, but you will get what you want.

Men are really sensitive about this. When a person touches their wife or vice versa, he immediately becomes more protective, as he feels the need to eliminate all the “competitors” around him.

Unfortunately, the majority of them can become overly protective when they feel insecure. So ‘accidentally’ touching another man is a great way to make your man jealous and think twice before getting too enterprising around other women around you. 

Be careful, however, not to go too far if you do not want him to question your sincerity and loyalty. And to prevent him from starting a fight.

Be mysterious

There is a saying that a woman without secrets is like a sky without stars. So, if you want to make your man jealous, stay mysterious for a while and watch his reaction. 

I’m sure he’ll start by controlling his emotions first, but eventually he’ll explode.

He won’t understand why you are doing this, and he will want to know if it has something to do with another man you have just met. 

Your mysterious aura will make him doubt your intentions, but he won’t ask you any questions about it because he won’t want to appear jealous. Smart, right?

Show him that you don’t need him

Men really like to protect and support their partners because it makes them feel manly and useful. But for a change, don’t ask your boyfriend for help. Rather, turn to a friend (preferably male) and ask them to drive you to a date or to see them help settle a conflict with a colleague.

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And when he’s come to your aid, tell your man you had a great time with your friend in the new apartment he helped you move into. I’m sure he’ll immediately have a picture of a sweaty, muscular man in his head helping you move your furniture. This image will make him jealous and helpless that he couldn’t help you.

Tell him you have to work late

Your man probably won’t worry if you don’t come home for dinner when you work late, but he will definitely change his mind after telling him that only you and a co-worker were in the office that night. 

It’ll make her think of all those Hollywood movies where two coworkers stay at work late at night and start kissing.

After that, the image of you and your colleague on the meeting table will never leave his mind. 

This feeling will devour him and he won’t subside until you’ve shown him a picture of your paunchy 50-year-old colleague.

Compliment his best friend

If you pay more attention to his best friend or your best friend than him, he will become extremely jealous.

He will want to know why you are doing it and why it is not enough for you anymore.

Just keep going with your strategies, and give him a dose of the pain he deserves (if he tends to have this kind of inappropriate behavior with your girlfriends or other women around you). It will make him think more about you and what you bring to your relationship, and he won’t take you for granted anymore.

Talk about your ex

One of the most effective ways to make a guy jealous is to talk about your ex. But not just to talk about it. Rather, it’s about praising your ex, so that your man will immediately be jealous and furious that you are still thinking about your past relationships.

As you probably already know, men love competition. It’s practically in their genes to constantly strive to be better than other guys, to have all the attention on them, to be congratulated on their successes, etc. 

And after hearing such great things about your ex, he’ll see it as his mission to get past him.

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Make it compete for your attention

Do not answer his calls immediately. Do not respond to him immediately when he sends a message. 

Don’t talk to him immediately when you join him at a night out with friends. 

Make him compete for your attention in every possible area because that’s the only way to make him feel helpless and why you are no longer under his spell.

How to make your boyfriend jealous

By doing this, he will be forced to roll up his sleeves and start earning your love, because he will not be able to accept that something or someone else is more important to you.

Post your photos on social media

Keep posting pictures of yourself having fun: your outings, vacations, meetings with other men, etc. When he sees them, he will lose his mind because he will have the feeling that he is not part of your life.

He will be jealous of not being a predominant actor in his extraordinary experiences, and he will now only focus on your doings and all the fun things you do with other people when he’s not around. 

Now he will want to fight to be a part of your exciting life.

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