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How to know a woman is single or committed to a relationship

Posted by John Anumba
How to know a lady is single or not
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Should you ask a woman if she is single or seriously committed to a relationship? Sometimes from a distance, it can be confusing to know if a woman is single or committed to a relationship. You can save yourself the emotional and mental stress and ask her directly if she is single or not.

Ensure that you are not a stranger to her before you ask or else your question might come out as weird. But if she is someone you are admiring from a distance or someone you just met, you can look out for some signs to decide on your own if she will be willing to mingle or not.

It is possible that she might seem committed but the truth remains that she’s passing time with the person hoping that someone better will come along.

That person can actually be you if you are observing signs of a lady that is not satisfied in her relationship.

It is also possible that she might seem single but fully committed to the person she’s currently dating.

The only way to know if someone is happy in a relationship is by understanding how she truly feels about her boyfriend.

If she’s someone you’ve known for a short time,  they are signs you can observe to decipher if she is committed to a relationship or not.

For someone you are trying to ask out,  if she’s not in a long-distance relationship,  it will be obvious that she is single because there is no particular person coming around her always.

Here are some signs to look out for in a woman that is committed in a relationship.

Her partner’s presence is obvious in her life

When two people are committed and have decided to take their relationship forward,  it should be obvious that they are making each other part of their lives. 

If this lady is your friend, you can assess how serious their relationship is with the way they make themselves part of their lives.

If they are constantly inviting each other to parties with their friends and dinner with their families,  it is obvious that she’s not single but serious with the person she’s dating

She keeps her relationships private

A woman that values our relationship will definitely keep it private and discuss little to nothing about it with you except how nice her boyfriend is.

However, if she’s good at resolving conflicts with her man and not in the attitude of complaining about his faults and attitudes to you,  it means she is in a relationship that is very serious.

They are comfortable being around themselves

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For a woman in a relationship, you can sense the compatibility with her man whenever they are together. 

You will also notice that they are happy and comfortable with each other’s presence regardless of the situation.

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They are not afraid to show emotions to each other and are comfortable enough to open up about their good and bad times.

She knows a lot about her man’s friends and family

For a woman you’ve known for a while, and have had your opportunity to have a few discussions with,  if you observe that she knows quite a lot about her partner’s friends and family,  it means they are fully committed to each other’s world and well-being.

Getting a woman like this to go out with you will be very difficult unless such relationships come to an end.

It can be quite difficult getting a woman that is happy with her man to abandon her secure relationship and take a chance with you.

Unless she is having doubts about the man in some aspects of her personal needs, only then will she be willing to check you out.

When that is not the case, and she is happy with her man, getting her to leave him is next to impossible.

The devil you know is better than the Angel you don’t.

She’s always willing to try new things with her man

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If this lady is someone you’ve known for a while,  and you know there are certain things she doesn’t like, like a kind of food or sport,  if she’s willing to try it with her man,  it means she’s fully committed to this person and wants to be part of his world.

Being willing to try something new with someone you love shows that you have a high level of trust in this person and feel safe enough to take risks.

They listen to each other

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Two compatible people that are seriously committed to each other will always be willing to listen to their partner’s concerns. 

They must also be willing to express themselves knowing that their partner will listen, understand, and work with them to resolve what the issue is.

People committed in a relationship don’t interrupt each other when they talk and they make eye contact.

They understand that when their partners are talking, they are saying something important and attention is really needed at this time.

They are always there for each other

Even if they don’t see each other consistently, they keep in contact with each other.  For a woman you’re trying to ask out,  if she’s really committed you will observe that her partner will regularly check on her and call her often if he is not in town.

Committed people show up for each other.  they’re always there for each other during the trials. trouble and uncertain times.

Getting a woman this serious about her relationship to go out with you on a date is next to impossible unless she is having issues of quality time with her partner.

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They are not afraid to talk to each other about something serious

People that are committed to their relationship will also be intimate  about their vulnerabilities.

They trust each other enough to let down their defenses and allow their partner to come into their world.

This way they don’t feel ashamed exposing their weaknesses and downsides. 

They are willing to have uncomfortable conversations and aware that as a cause of these discussions emotions might arise.

What is important is honesty and their willingness to express their feelings.

A woman in a committed relationship would have had important discussions with her partner concerning their futures together, their boundaries and private life.

If this section has been completed with her partner, she is not single and available for dates.

Her partner is an important part of her life

If a woman has someone she loves a lot,  it will be obvious in her conversations and discussions with other men.

She will always pick her partner over her friends both in hanging out and discussing their problems. 

A woman in a serious relationship prioritizes her partner.

This action is not only because they care but because her partner is the first and most important person should want to share her good and bad times with.

Observing these signs in a woman proves to a decent level that she’s not single but in a committed

Obvious Signs She Is Single

It can be difficult to tell if a lady that just moved into your neighborhood is single or in a serious relationship. It is the same if you are just moving in and checking out a lady in the hood that looks fine.

Whether this is the case or not, if you don’t know much about a lady, and want to find out if she is single or not, there are obvious signs that can help you find out.

Some of them are listed below.

Always dress to kill

I am not saying committed ladies do not dress sexy or fine, I am saying that single ladies make it obvious. Always checking out her body and ensuring her makeup still looks good throughout the day is a sign that she is making herself approachable.

The dress sense of a lady that is willing to mingle is very obvious.

Might be a little tight and exposing in a way, but if she has a man, he wouldn’t feel comfortable about it.

It is also possible that she might be decent about her dress code but makeups give them away.

If you are getting confusing signs from the way she dresses, then continue reading other signs you can put together to come to a conclusion.

Willing to hang out 

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For a single lady, before you ask her out, you will observe that she is willing to hang out with a couple of guys in the office or neighborhood.

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It might not be a date, but she is willing to chill out with her male friends over a couple of drinks or spend more time with her married friends because she has no one to spend quality time with.

This is another confirmed sign that she is single and not in a committed relationship.

Have lots of single female friends

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A single lady will not only be willing to always hang out with her single friends but will have lots of them. 

Single girls don’t have a serious guy they can share quality time with so they will be willing to hang out with each other even to the late hours of the night.

They can’t wait to have fun or go to the club on Friday nights.

They are free and willing to mingle so hanging out in places where they can possibly meet guys will make obvious sense.

Social media accounts say a lot

If you have an opportunity to get hold of her Facebook or Instagram handles, the picture she uploads can help you understand if she is in a serious relationship or not.

Of course, if she is committed, her profile will show ‘not single’ and you will see pictures of herself and her partner and lots of them.

But if she is always showing pretty pictures of herself alone and with her female friends and scanty pictures of herself with different gus, it is obvious that she is single and willing to mingle.

Combining a couple of these signs above should help you know if a lady is single or fully committed to a serious relationship.

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