Do you want to be fun and humorous? Find out how to be funny and make people love your company with these simple steps that can make a difference in no time.
Funny and charming people are not born that way.
They were born like everyone else, but they’ve learned to be funny along the way.
During our formative years and childhood, we begin to grasp the traits and characters that we see all around us.
But if you haven’t taken the funny body influence from past experiences, then don’t worry about it.
All it takes is a little understanding of how to be funny, and what it really takes to be a funny person who charms everyone.
Being funny isn’t about telling jokes all the time.
A talking parrot could be the funniest thing in the world if things worked out this way.
And being funny doesn’t mean behaving like a clown, either.
A funny person is someone who is really happy at heart and uses situations around them to create something funny out of nothing.
How to be funny no matter where you are
If you are a not-so-funny person and want to have fun, there are two things you should keep in mind. One, you can’t please everyone, so don’t feel disappointed if someone isn’t laughing. Two, it takes a long time to get funny.
Remember, when you try to be funnier you change your whole personality and become a better charmer.
And it will definitely take time. [Read: 12 types of humor and how it affects relationships and the people around you]
To start your fun journey of becoming a funnier person, you have to change the way you look at the world. Don’t be negative or boring. Try to be involved and add to the conversation wherever you are.
Happy and fun people always have better lives. They have more friends, and people always bond better with them instantly. After all, funny people are memorable people.
10 Steps to be a funny person who is loved by everyone
To truly become a funny person that everyone enjoys the company of, you need to take baby steps to become a better you. Here are 13 little steps you need to take to be funny and loved.
# 1 Think positive.
The art of being funny or humorous begins with positivity. Be optimistic in your approach to life and develop the ability to always look on the bright side of everything.
# 2 Have a happy laugh.
A person who has a pleasant laugh or a warm smile on their face while meeting friends or someone new comes across as a nice, fun person to hang out with. If you want to be funny, you have to start by being seen as a fun, likable person.
# 3 The kind of company you keep.
Spend time with your friends and meet new friends to have fun with. The type of company you keep can change your outlook on life. When you hang out with people who love to laugh all the time, you can watch and learn while working on your own humor at the same time.
# 4 Comedy shows.
Sometimes a little inspiration from somewhere can help you have fun faster. Just like how the autobiographies of successful people can help you achieve more in life, watching stand-up comedies or comedy movies will definitely make you a funnier and happier person.
And when you watch the comedy movies, don’t just listen to the funny lines. Watch how the characters on the screen behave and move when they are talking funny.
After all, being funny isn’t just in the lines you say. The way you behave can make a huge difference to your funny body. [Read: How to love yourself and become a much better you!]
# 5 A mischievous attitude.
Funny people always have a streak of mischief in them. They like to pull someone’s leg or laugh at something funny around them.
Playful people always see a double meaning in any conversation. Try to think out of the box and see the fun side in everything you do.
# 6 Confidence.
Be confident, it really is that simple. It’s not easy to be funny, and you have to like the person you see in the mirror to make a joke in the middle of the conversation.
If you are confident and believe that you are a fun person, everyone will feel the same about you. And another point to remember, funny people get funnier the more they feel confident.
# 7 Think funny.
Change your outlook on the world. Always try to see a funny side to everything. By doing this, your humor will start to become spontaneous. And to really appreciate the fun things in life, you have to start taking things just a little more lightly.
# 8 Read a lot of jokes.
Funny jokes and liners will give you a lot of catchphrases that you could use on your own. It will also help you better visualize the scenarios in your own life. You really don’t have to memorize jokes.
Just knowing what’s going on in a bar or classroom can help you recreate the same joke when you experience something similar in your real life.
# 9 Work on your intonation.
Understand when to take a break and when to continue talking while talking to someone. Read the newspaper aloud for about half an hour every day. A serious guy might be telling a joke, and people might just smile at him.
A funny guy might say the same joke, and people might start laughing halfway through the joke.
How much more to tell you that something funny matters a lot more than what you say.
Funny people always have great intonation. [Read: How to network and meet interesting people at parties]
# 10 Be mysterious .
As you get funnier, people will just expect you to have a funny response to anything someone says. But you don’t really have to prove that you’re a funny person all the time.
Sometimes, even if you smile, others around you will end up laughing because they will assume that you are thinking about something funny!
# 11 Use the right accessories.
You don’t always have to crack a joke or say something funny when you’re with your friends. Use other people’s answers or questions and comment on them by saying something funny.
If someone asks a question, answer something funny. What’s the worst that can happen? People may ignore your joke and think you are responding seriously. It’s still not bad, is it?
# 12 Know your world.
Be aware of what is going on around you. Funny people are funny because they already know the serious answers to current affairs questions, and they twist the truth and say something funny instead.
Remember, a funny person is also a very intelligent person who knows what is going on in the world.
# 13 Stay who you are.
Add humor to your life and the way you talk, but don’t try to be someone else. This is the biggest mistake a lot of people end up making when trying to be funny.
If you are a serious type you don’t have to be a talker or vice versa. Stick to who you are, and learn to be funny by adding that funny side to the real you.
The three types of comedians you can be
There are many ways to be funny. But there are three traits you can add in your communication that will always work, without you seeming to be trying too hard.
Use any or all of these three types of humor in your conversation, and you’ll always leave the people around you in divisions.
# 1 Sex.
If someone around you says something, try to find some hidden meaning that can be related to sex. And answer the question or comment with the sex reference in mind. It doesn’t have to be obvious, but others need to understand what you mean.
# 2 Sarcasm.
This is where you answer a question with a serious face, but say something really funny.
# 3 Self-deprecation.
It’s not one of the best types of humor to use, but it works. It’s the kind of humor where you put yourself in front of another person in a funny way, especially when you’ve done something wrong.
Think of Hugh Grant in all of his funny chick movies and you’ll know what I mean.
But a word of warning here, only use disapproving humor around people you’re close to, or others may think you’re a weak character who has low self-esteem and can be pushed.
After all, you can’t constantly push yourself down and expect others to think you are a class actor. [Read: How to attract a girl using self-defeating humor]
Types of humor to avoid
If you are trying to be funny you can say whatever you want, but try to avoid crossing the thin line that can make your joke from funny to uncomfortable.
# 1 Demeaning jokes.
Don’t ridicule someone else in a conversation just to make others laugh. It might work for a line or two, but others around you may start to feel bad about it all very soon. It works in stand-up comedy, and not always in real life.
# 2 Mimicry.
Imitating a friend who isn’t there can be a laugh at first. But others may think of you as a rude person who doesn’t care about other people’s feelings. It’s not funny, unless that person you are making fun of is able to defend themselves by imitating or making fun of you. [Read: Are your negative thinking ruining your life?]
Don’t whip the dead horse
Don’t be predictable or need attention while joking all the time. There is nothing worse than a funny person whose jokes are too obvious. You don’t need to make the whole room laugh all the time. Sometimes it’s good to sit quietly. You’re not a comedian, you know?
Be funny when you see the opportunity, but don’t sit on the edge of the seat and constantly try to say something funny all the time. A funny talker makes the play laugh every now and then, a stand-up comedian looks for ways to keep the play slit all the time.
Do not abandon
This is the most important tip you need to remember. We all have to learn to walk before we can run. And just like that, you will learn to get funnier over time. Don’t be discouraged if your funny lines don’t work at first or if some people don’t get your jokes. [Read: Bad friends – 10 circumstances when you should end a friendship]
Even the funniest of people could get stuck in the middle of lifeless society every now and then. Remember your lines when you get home and see if you’ve said something offensive. Learn from your mistakes and you will improve yourself with each passing day.[Read: The 10 types of love we all experience in our life]
The last word, remember that knowing how to be funny isn’t just about repeating a silly line every now and then. It’s about changing your whole personality to be a funnier person whose company everyone enjoys. Use these tips and you will definitely be able to do it!