Want to know how to be chivalrous? Here’s a story about how it all started and how you can impress a girl today using the code of modern chivalry.
Before you understand how to be chivalrous in these modern times, you need to know what a woman expects from a man and what you can do to be that man.
Thinking back to medieval times, can a man be truly chivalrous today or would he just be seen as stupid?
How to be chivalrous
Many centuries ago, when kings reigned, knights of bravery and honor trod the land.
They left behind a legacy of chivalry and love. Women always want this.
Sadly, men today do not know much about inheritance, and most men have no idea of the revered code of the Knights.
But then again, is it with women these days?
On the one hand, they swoon over the men who show the slightest chivalry, and on the other, the women seem to be slowly killing chivalry!
To be completely realistic, chivalry is well and truly dead.
Back in the days of old, men knew how to be chivalrous. The knights would take off their mantle and lay it on a puddle so that their lady wouldn’t get her feet dirty. They have enough chivalry to pick up the maid’s scarf when she drops it to the floor in a jiffy. Can men really do this today?
Learn to be chivalrous through experiences
The last time I helped a cute girl pick up an entire bag of groceries she had dropped she just gave me a chic look and left, like I was her blossoming servant or something like that.
And I remember a friend of mine who gave his overcoat on his date because it was raining a little. At first he told me that she smiled and laughed while walking down the street.
When they finally rushed to a restaurant down the street, the drizzle had turned into a downpour. They entered the restaurant and the girl took off her coat to reveal a clean dress, while he was soggy and damp.
And the worst part of it all was is that this day was quite uncomfortable for him to get any closer to her or acknowledge the fact that he was soaked to the bone because he gave her his coat.
Instead of being grateful, she was actually annoyed and sarcastic, laughing at him because he was soaked and embarrassed at the restaurant.
That day, he gave up being chivalrous and decided to never try to be the knight in shining armor. [Read: What do girls always notice on a date? ]
So who are we to blame for the death of chivalry, us men, or the typical women who always seem to have a problem with the lack of a chivalrous streak in men? Well all I can say is, “don’t hate games, hate damn rules”
Women and their manners with chivalry
Oddly enough, women can be really weird at times. And it’s very hard to please them when we don’t know if they’re looking for a guy with a chivalrous streak in them or not.
We have these damsels in distress who just can’t imagine their lives without a chivalrous man.
And they’re usually the ones who get pissed off if you don’t clear their seat before they park their rears, or are totally upset and act out of the way if you don’t pull the chair out for them or keep the door open.
Now, I love this woman. As demanding as she seems, she’ll recognize your gesture, or at least know deep inside that you care for her (I hope?).
If she doesn’t seem to care, just cut back on your chivalrous moves. Blame your loss of chivalry on her, which is the truth anyway, because she didn’t thank you when you were nice, so why bother.
On the other hand, we have the “I-am-a-shitty-feminist” woman. She’s usually the one who will walk past you to a restaurant and open the door herself while you try to catch up with her, or the one who just can’t digest the fact that you step aside so that she can. enter the elevator first.
She had just assumed that you would like to see her ass by letting her walk in front! She’s also the one who gives you a weird look when you hold the door open for her. Of course, she thinks you think she’s just too weak to open the door on her own!
So by the gods of hell why do you want to know how to be chivalrous and show you respect a woman? Well, it’s pretty straightforward. Just be really nice to her no matter how she behaves.
Just as we have a streak of chivalry within us, women also have a streak of “I-want-to-be-pampered” within them.
So even if she thinks you are checking her ass or not, be courteous. So what if you check her ass, tell her it’s hot! But if she’s the chivalrous-loving maiden, be a lot more chivalrous than you’ve ever been.
She’ll love you for it, and you’ll feel really good about it.
Chivalry and a woman’s friends
So you want to invite a woman and impress her? The first thing you need to know is how to be chivalrous, and the second thing you need to know is that women always need to be reassured.
Women need the advice of their friends before they step into a new dress. They need to have a majority vote before deciding where to go for a quick lunch.
And as to whether the meal should be quick or not, well, now they’re in dire need of a vote of comfort.
So what makes you think you are different? Now, let’s try to figure out what happens in the life of your date after your first date at a cafe.
She jumps, jumps and jumps in her place or in the place of a friend. All his friends want to know all the details. So it’s either a conference call or a caucus. And everything is discussed in great detail.
This is when your chivalry is in the picture. Regardless of whether the girl noticed it or not, her friends will see her.
I remember once I had a first date. I was exceptionally nice to her, but she didn’t admit it for a second. I did not give up. I continued with the pretty me in everything I did with her.
I wondered if I wasn’t making any impact on her. I don’t know how it happened, but she did call me that night and offered me a second date, and a few days after that we started dating.
Later I found out that her friends had convinced her that I was a good guy and asked her to call me back. Apparently, they thought I was a bloody knight! [Read: How to charm a girl ]
I mean, how tough can she be, wipe the dust off her seat, pull up a chair, give her your coat, and hold the door open for her? But you see, by doing that you are making all the difference. Morality?
Even if she doesn’t show appreciation, never give up and always be chivalrous. Her friends might see your chivalrous nature as a sign of courteous behavior.
Chivalry, Women and Your Daily Life
Chivalry is a way of life, which can help you show the woman who is with you that you respect her and appreciate her company. Understanding how to be chivalrous isn’t just how to impress women.
He makes you a man of principle and can make you a better man who is appreciated and approved by the people around you.
Some women may think you are being ridiculous by being chivalrous or trying to please them with chivalry. But the truth is, they will regret ever leaving your life. [Read: What do women want from a man ]
Knowing how to be chivalrous is not an art to please women, it is a way of life appreciated by the people around you.
And if a woman you’ve met prefers to lead an unhappy life with a man who doesn’t appreciate or respect her for what she’s worth, that’s something she’s going to regret eventually.
So if anyone ever tells you that chivalry is dead, don’t think twice. Chivalry may be dying all around you, but a chivalrous knight is all it takes to turn a romantic relationship into a fairytale experience for that special woman in your life.