Flirt with a Girl on Facebook in 6 Steps

Posted by John Anumba
Flirt with a Girl on Facebook in 6 Steps

CAUTION: These techniques for dating a girl on Facebook are not for everyone, so use them if you are comfortable adding random girls to Facebook.

Do you have a Facebook account ?

I’m guessing you are doing this …

How many women do you choose on Facebook each week then?

I’m guessing… zero.

Most of the guys I talk to every day have no idea what is Facebook dating. They just use it to add fake girlfriends they’ve met for 2 minutes at a lame party or their older sister’s best friend party.

Why the hell would you want to be on Facebook if you don’t want to use it to pick up girls?

Seriously want to hook up with old friends and write “Oh man, it’s been too long, we should catch up…” on their wall?

Haha, you make me laugh… deactivate your account now!

Ok… just kidding, obviously having a Facebook account isn’t just for flirting with girls, it’s important these days to have one for a lot of other things… (promoting a business, your personal brand, connection with family etc.). 

But listen man… you’ve got a tool at your disposal that’s so powerful the CIA is using it to run background checks on people… girls, voluntarily giving out information on their profile that you can use to pack them up.

This is crazy.

In this article, I’m going to teach you the secrets of Facebook dating.

Now this is not a guide to mellow with pointless advice that punk created… These are proven, techniques given to you in a few simple steps, which you can apply today and start seeing damn results. fast.

Before we get into the good stuff, let’s first see why you should spend a little more time dating girls on Facebook, rather than posting shit on your wall that will never get read.

Why is Facebook so great at dating girls?

You can talk to more than one girl at the same time, without ever getting caught. In the real world, you can only focus on one chick at a time.

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Once you master the techniques below you can have a new encounter (or even several) every week if you want.

You can design your life on Facebook. I’m not talking about telling lies, I mean you can go social with your account so that the hard work is done for you.

Women approach you. That’s right, girls will add you as a friend.

Flirt with a Girl on Facebook in 6 Steps

It’s a lot easier than you think.

Good then. Anytime you want to approach a girl on Facebook, just follow these steps and you’ll see things magically turn out.

1. Add girls you think are cute

An evidence.

Spend a few hours a week, adding 5-10 girls that you think are cute or really hot as a friend. Write an intriguing opening line in the “add a message” box that appears.

If you can’t think of something funny or interesting to say, just forget about the message and add the girl as a friend.

2. Familiarize yourself with its page

Spend 15 minutes on her page, check out those interests, read these latest posts on her wall, and look at those photos. This will let you know who she is, what she is and how she interacts with her friends.

It will give you a better overview of her personality if you can connect with her.

3. Comments on new photos, videos and updates

When she posts a photo, video, or update, leave a comment on it with a funny or positive message. Don’t be negative or too harsh.

Keep doing this for about 3 weeks, she will get to know you.

4. Send the first message

After you’ve posted a few comments and liked her updates, photos, videos, etc., go ahead and message her to create a connection with her.

Be brief, ask her her opinion on something, so she can probably respond. Women just can’t resist offering advice, it’s like breathing for them. 

5. Connect with it

If she replies to all the messages, it means that she loves you… so keep it up. Each post should be short and sweet, but you should do this by trying to connect with it. Try to really understand what she is going through, how she feels, and who she really is. Go with this goal and your conversations will be more interesting and connected. 

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6. Set up a meeting

Never rush to meet her, you must wait at least after a month and several messages before offering to meet her. Sometimes even more, depending on how many messages you’ve sent and how responsive she is.

Tell her “Meet up for a coffee or a food party next week …” then arrange the date and time with her.

The absolute best way to fix a date is to talk to her on the phone.

Give him your number (let’s not ask for his) and say “Call me later, so we can meet for coffee…”.

The second best would be a text or a message on Facebook.

The rules to follow for successful Facebook dating

Make sure your photos are up to date

Keep them like in the past two months so it doesn’t come as a shock when you meet her. It’s all well and good to have elders, but hide them.

Delete all photos of random girls

If there are vulgar photos of girls in your scrapbooks, get rid of them. When another young girl looks at this she’ll think you’re a typical guy and just kill you.

Use social proof

Add pictures of you and pretty girls, but strategically… like you’re in the park, relaxing with your “girl” friends or dating somewhere. This is also known as a prescreen.

NEVER a cold message to a girl… Stupid

If you send 100 cold messages, you might get feedback, but that would be crazy. Women get cold messages all the time and it never works, so don’t be a jerk.

Never get tagged in photos that can damage your credibility

People will tag you in funny photos, like throwing you down the gutter after a night out. Make sure you don’t get tagged in these kinds of photos.

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Never say it’s pretty or she’s hot when she posts a pic

Women like to post pictures online in order to get a boost of confidence, not to give them that satisfaction. Always post a funny comment or post nothing at all.

Don’t be Mr. funny 

Women love funny guys, but if you always try to be funny you can upset them pretty quickly. So you have to be funny from time to time but don’t overdo it.


This is how you flirt with a girl on Facebook, man.

I know guys are going to bitch and complain about how long that could take, but far from a minute… aren’t you going to approach a girl and date her on day one? Exactly, so just relax.

Just follow the steps above, follow the rules and the rest is easy.

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